Um das zu erreichen, was Sie fragen, versuchen Sie Folgendes (UPDATE nach der Bearbeitung von OP):
SELECT A.requestid, A.starttime, (B.starttime - A.starttime) AS timedifference
FROM MyTable A INNER JOIN MyTable B ON B.requestid = (A.requestid + 1)
ORDER BY A.requestid ASC
IF requestid
nicht fortlaufend ist, können Sie
SELECT A.requestid, A.starttime, (B.starttime - A.starttime) AS timedifference
FROM MyTable A CROSS JOIN MyTable B
WHERE B.requestid IN (SELECT MIN (C.requestid) FROM MyTable C WHERE C.requestid > A.requestid)
ORDER BY A.requestid ASC